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Building bridges
A BMS development worker talks about how small gestures and simple things can build bridges and create relationships in Afghanistan.
The bridge that I built at the end of our road with my neighbours isn’t very big or particularly impressive. It spans half a metre across a drainage ditch and allows vehicles access to our street.
The initial assumption, when I was asked to help, was that we would provide the money and others would build it – that’s often the expectation from foreigners in Afghanistan. But I wanted to get to know people so I asked if I could help with the construction and said I would only pay some of the costs.
This was agreed and over the course of a couple of weekends we made the bridge. There was lots of interest. People on their way somewhere would stop for half an hour to help out or give their advice; we drank plenty of tea and no doubt there was amusement to be had from watching how the foreigner did things. Everyone seemed pleased with the result.
Then, the following week, a truck went over the bridge and it got damaged; slightly embarrassing if you have two engineering degrees. When the humiliation became too much and winter was over, I had a go at a new-improved version with one of our neighbours. Hopefully it will be OK now.
It’s been a slow process building up trust and getting to know our neighbours but we feel that we are becoming accepted. There has been lots of talk of the bridge and I’m sure that has helped; especially since we did it twice. Hopefully there will be similar opportunities in the future.
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